* overwhelmed mum approved
But after kids, sex feels like just one more thing on the never-ending to-do list.
And the thought of being touched one more time today?
Hard pass.
Your desire is low, maybe even nonexistent.
And sometimes you wonder, “Do I even want to want it?”
But then there are moments…
Moments when you miss feeling close.
Connected. Playful.
Even a little sexy.
You miss wanting to be intimate.
Because right now?
You. Just. Don’t.
Not just logistics managers, tag-teaming bedtime.
But partners. Lovers. A team.
What if intimacy wasn’t another task to tick off...
but something that actually brought you closer?
What if you could laugh together again, flirt a little, share those “just us” moments that remind you why you chose each other in the first place?
No pressure. No pretending.
Just a gentle, real way to feel close again, emotionally, physically, even sexually - in a way that fits this season of life.
Because sex after kids isn’t about “getting back to how it was.”
It’s about staying connected, so your relationship survives on the other side.
A 5-week, self-paced course to help you reconnect with your partner...on your terms.
No pressure to “perform.”
No awkward lingerie hauls.
No forced date nights that leave you even more exhausted.
Just real, practical, and sustainable shifts that will gently transform your intimacy and your relationship, forever.
“After my second baby, sex just disappeared off the radar. I was f*cking exhausted, touched out, and honestly didn’t even miss it until I realised how distant I felt from my partner. I didn’t know how to get it back, and I was scared I never would.
This course felt like someone holding my hand through all of it. It helped me understand my body and libido, and what I needed to feel open to intimacy. For the first time in years, I’m reconnecting with myself and my partner and it feels really good to be in this place.”
Whether you have one child or five, you'll learn how to keep intimacy and connection alive - even when you're dealing with little sleep, zero time and a libido that packed up and left the group chat long ago.
Uncover the lies that are keeping you stuck, stressed and worried about your sex life - so you can feel excited and motivated for change.
Discover the truth about your unique desire - how it works, what it needs and how to cultivate it on demand. You have so much more power than you think!
Explore what type of intimacy would feel good during your current season and circumstance. Hint: a great sex life isn't just about sex, and you don't have to have more of it to thrive as a couple!
Cultivate a relationship that is based on pleasure, not pressure, excitement, not expectation,n using small tweaks that create massive change.
"I honestly thought something was wrong with me. I loved my husband, but I never wanted to have sex. I’d get touched out by 10 am and feel guilty every night for not being ‘into it.’ This course made me realise I’m not broken. I needed to understand what had changed and how to meet myself in this new season. The pressure is gone, and for the first time in ages, I feel open to closeness again.”
Mel, mum of one.
"We stopped feeling like teammates after our second baby. Sex became a point of tension. He wanted it, I didn’t, and every conversation turned into a fight, or I'd shut down. This course helped us name what was happening, drop the blame, and reconnect in a way that felt safe. It wasn’t just about sex, it was about feeling close, supported, and like we were in this together again.”
Sara, mum of two
A self-paced, confidential, five-module program.
All lessons are audio-based, so you can take the course with you wherever you go. Whether you're doing the laundry, on the school run, or sneaking in some “me time.” Plus, if reading is more your style, you'll also get transcripts of every lesson to dive into at your own pace!
The comprehensive workbook, packed with worksheets, quizzes, tips, and action steps, is designed to ensure you get the best results possible. This is where the real magic happens and where you’ll gain clarity, take action, and start making changes that truly stick!
With your bonus guide, How to Talk About Sex, you'll never have to stress about those tricky conversations again. Feel confident, comfortable, and ready to communicate with ease!
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Totally okay. This course was made for you. You don’t need to be “in the mood” to begin. We’ll explore why your desire might be low (or gone) and how to gently rebuild it in ways that feel safe, realistic, and empowering.
Nope! Sex After Kids is designed for you. You can go through the entire course completely solo, no partner participation required.
That said, if you do want to share what you’re learning, there are gentle talking points and conversation prompts included, and I’ll walk you through exactly how to open up those chats without pressure or awkwardness.
Absolutely not. This is not a course about pushing through, performing, or pretending to want sex when you don’t.
And you don’t need fixing, because you’re not broken. Sex After Kids is about understanding what’s really going on underneath the disconnection, unpacking the pressure, and finding your way back to intimacy in a way that feels honest, safe, and empowering.
It’s about reclaiming your pleasure, not forcing it.
I hear you. The course is self-paced, designed in bite-sized pieces you can fit into real life (yes, even with a toddler climbing you). You’ll get 2 years' access, so there’s no rush and no pressure. Take it one gentle step at a time.
REDISCOVER a sexual connection with your partner, even when time and energy is low
RECONNECT as a couple, not just joint managers of chaos, without having a ton of sex
REPAIR the strain that parenting has placed on your relationship and intimacy
REDESIGN your sex life to include stress-free pleasure (and connection that doesn’t always lead to sex)
DISCOVER the kind of sex you actually want on your terms!
SURVIVE the chaos of parenting with your relationship intact.
Hi, I’m Tara, sex coach, author of The Better Sex Project, and founder of multiple online programs designed to help women reignite their desire and deepen intimacy after kids.
I’ve been a sex coach for over 12 years, taught thousands of women through my sold-out workshops (with over 5,000 attendees), and created one of the highest-selling courses in this space, Sex After Kids, with more than 2,000 women enrolled.
That photo you see? That’s me, mum of two, wife, and right in the thick of the beautiful, messy chaos of parenting. I know how easy it is for desire to fade and intimacy to feel like just another task. But I also know everything just feels better when my husband and I are feeling connected and seen.
Feel like you're getting zilch from this course, I will happily refund your purchase!